How to Flirt over Text

flirting-with-boysWho does not flirt! Adopting the best media for flirting is very important. I think love letters are quite old and calls via phone is expensive. In modern days, text messages in the best media for flirting. This article covers some exclusive ideas to flirt via text messages both for girls and boys. Actually this article aims to introduce you something new that are flexting. The text messages which are more than text and less than serious romantic may be termed as flexting.

Flirting with Boys via Text

If you are a girl the following tips for flirting with boys over text will assist you to impress anybody through texting.

  • Addressing his name in your text

Say his name at least every first text messages in your conversation.

Example: Hi John! I noticed you in the mall buying gifts.
How it helps: He will know that he is in your mind and you are texting him not a generalized text that is for everyone.

  • Be intelligent to express your emotion for him


If you don’t want to tell directly anything your text should contain hints about your emotion. For example, if a guy asks you to go out with him and you also like him, your text should express your emotion. This text doesn’t need to be very big. Some simple word can express your emotion if you can do it in an intelligent way. Here is an example for you.

Example: I am just thinking about having my favorite chocolate ice-cream. I know you’d also love it.
How it helps: In this text you have said that you two meet but you don’t say it very strongly.

  • Ask him some questions to make him easy

If the opposite person is shy you should ask something in the conversation.

Example: This seems interesting to me. Then what happened?
How it helps: This text assures him that you are enjoying his conversation and you eagerly want to know it. Your interest in him is shown in this text clearly.

  • Assure him that you enjoy his words

Let him know that you enjoy his words.

Example: Your jokes were so funny. I told them my friends and she broke into laughter too. You are amazing!!!!!<3
How it helps: This text helps him to know that you enjoy his company and it is a very good sign.

  • Your text should demand answers

Your text should be something like that he has to write something in reply.

Example: Hi john!! I am thinking about to buy a laptop. I don’t know too much about this. Would you come to help me???

How it helps: Such kind of sweet asking for help reveals that you have respect and trust for him. If your text doesn’t demand an answer the conversation will be boring.

You can use lot those silly and interesting love quotes for him to make your conversations enjoyable and interesting. Any way all those chats are to enjoy and flirt

Flirting with Girls over text

Following flirting tips are for boys to help them flirting via text messages.

  • Addressing her name in your text

Say her name at least every first text messages in your conversation.

Example: Hi Jenny! I noticed you in the mall buying gifts.

How it helps: She will know that she is in your mind and you are texting her not a generalized text that is for everyone.

  • Make your text live using punctuation and emotions

Example: Hi!!!! I am very happy thinking that you are reading this text and smiling…….<3<3<3
flirty-text-messageHow it helps: It makes your text interesting to her. But don’t use too more emotions. It can makes het annoyed.

  • Make laugh her through teasing

You can make her laugh while making a move. How about the use of sweet pick up lines that are comic and cheesy? That would be best to make her fall for you over the text.

Example: Hmmm……You are naughtier than I thought!!! It’s just amazing to discover this ……
How it helps: Girls like to be teased. This text makes her laugh which is a positive sign for you. But you must be careful about your words. They should be polite enough.

  • Make her interested

Example: Hi!!!!!!! I am just thinking something about you…….
How it helps: After reading this text she may want to know what you are thinking about her.

Say something about last meeting

Example: Hi!!!!! Last evening was the most wonderful evening in my life!! I hope we will make such company again and again ❤

How it helps: This type of text helps you to make her know about your feelings for her. She will know that you are enjoying her company.

Some example of flexting that works both for girls and boys

  • I am in a big trouble….I just can’t stop thinking about you! :p
  • You are looking very sweet!……….How do I know? Simple……You are always sweet.
  • I can’ sleep! 😦 ……….. May be this is because you are thinking about me. Please stop it………. I have work early tomorrow….:)
  • Please save me!!!!!!!! I can’t do anything other than thinking about you 🙂

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